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I really don't know what the issue with the trainer was. She is young, and I have to agree that anyone can "say" they are a trainer, that doesn't mean much. I suppose I could put an ad out there saying I am a "trainer" which obviously I am not.
I think she is confused, but I also know she is very lazy. She is obviously going to need some more serious training, I don't have the time or resources to do it right now, but I think I am going to call a trainer someone highly recommended (I trust this person), talk to him and see about possibly bringing her there for a while when I get the funds.
Vetjeanne - I'm not sure how many horses were in for training at the time, I know some were hers and some were boarded, there weren't *too* many I don't think that were in for training. The fact is, if these excuses were real (which I know some were, but I don't believe all were) There's no way she could have had the time to do the training she said she did.
XtendedTrot- the first time she "cancelled" she apologized and said she NEVER cancels unless it is dire. Well, 1409352289 excuses later, that first statement was wiped out! I should have done something the first couple of times. I went there a couple times "unannounced" but she wasn't there, the stalls were pretty dirty (not terrible, but it'd obviously been more than a day, I would say) and there was no water one time. She is a bit of a smooth talker I think, trying to get herself out of things and I so want to believe her and work with her. Now I've been trying to get her to come out here and work her, cancelled for the first time because she was "bucked off" a horse and was at the ER all night (interesting that she told me this is a horse she "trained" and was brought back because now he has a "bucking problem." Yesterday she said she tried calling me, neither phone showed her number...unbelievable!
Lwynn- I'm sorry for your situation, too. I, too am scared to get back on her. Though her "bucks" were nothing major, the second time she did it will a little more "anger" and that really scared me. Third time's the charm, I'm not quite ready to go for that again!
Chevychic26- thanks for the post! I think after the first time, I sat out two bucks and then I got off and lunged her, had someone get on her while I lead her around (she still wasn't too happy about that), but I personally did not get on her again. The second time when she got more irratated, I jumped off pretty fast (it was one small one, a few steps and then two in a row, I got off and lunged her again). I don't even want to try it again because I know she is realizing this is ok and when she does this I will get off.
dodib- yes, though I don't really think it's a medical issue, I will have the vet out to evaluate her before anything else is done with her, to rule out any possiblilities.
Sunlei- thank you for the post! Haven't had a chance to check out the videos yet, but will definately do it when I get home a little later.
EquineAlberta- thanks for the post. I certainly don't think she's a lost cause, either, though I have noticed that she has gotten progressively more impatient when it comes to "work-time." I just have no clue where to start to get her more interested in it, and that it is not a punishment, help her realize that it's not a bad thing. I'm just really frusterated and upset, because she really is a GREAT horse.
Valleygirl- she'll always have a home here, but would like to find someone who has the time and like you said "heart" to work with her consistently...once I get this all figured out I know she is going to be a gem. (or at least I hope!)
lbequ4002- that is scary, and very unfortunate. How was this horse on the ground? I sincerely hope that is not the case with her, I think I am going to have to start doing more gound work with her again and find a reputable trainer to evalutate her for certain. Yes, the lady who came to see her tried to get on her bareback (I really didn't think this would be an issue if I was leading her) but she started to back up and acted like she might buck before she even got her leg all the way over.
A J - I've come to realize this horse is extremely lazy, even when you are walking her she drags herself (of course she always happens to get enough energy to kick at the other horses and move away from the mounting block! I hope this isn't going to be it for her, but we will see.
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