| I don't think separating him from his pasture buddies, putting him in with new friends is the answer. He will just bond with new horses
I think the entire bonding with humans is a bit over done. I rather think on leadership and respect.Horses will learn to trust a rider, but they are not dogs, and will always prefer the company of their own kind, being herd animals, but out of respect, will accept human leadership, which includes accepting that human when worked with, as being the leader in their herd of two
You in turn have to insist on that respect.
This is certainly where the correct use of a stud shank is in order. The horse has learned he can out pull a human, taking charge when led. He has to be convinced otherwise, by whatever means it takes
Stalling the horse is not the answer. Horses need movement, and accept temporary separation from friends, not because they are not allowed herd living conditions, but because you ask them to accept it
Thus, I would tie him in a safe stall for an hour or so daily, turning him back out only when he is standing quiet
When you work with him, you have to insist that his attention is only on you, not on pasture mates. Thus, no allowing him to call out when either handled or ridden
Do you have some enclosed area you can ride him in at home? If you do, you can focus on getting both his attention and some body control without worrying that he can run off. Never let his attention stay to outside of that riding area, no matter what friends are doing in the field. His attention has to be on you. There are many ways of doing this, like really asking for his face when he starts to focus on friends, spur his hips around, make those feet work doing various suppling excercises. As he starts to focus on you, reward with a loose rein. After riding, tie him up again for some time before turing him back out
ASl our young horses when it came time to start them were herd bound to some degree. All spent time in the barn alone, tied in a stall, before work and after work. They soon learn life goes on without friends. You are the one that turns him loose, feeds him, etc
They soon also learn that when worked with, you are their leader, not buddies in the field. You only get this by being a firm leader, controling them both on the ground and under saddle
Working around buddies is not the answer. Assuming that leadership role in their eyes is. You don;t get that respect, no matter how much you think you 'bond' in the round pen. You get that respect, in the old reining motto- to rein a horse is to control his every move.' This can also be applied to ground manners
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